Do nice girls die first?

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To understand the nuts and bolts of this, I put in a call to Fulvio D’Acquisto, professor of immunology at the University of Roehampton, practising psychotherapist, and one of the world’s foremost experts on the interplay between the immune and emotional systems – a field known as affective immunology. ‘Only two tissues can remember: the brain and immune system,’ he shares. ‘The brain measures what you experience consciously, everything else – invisible threats – is monitored by the immune system.’ Being healthy, he explains, isn’t about an absence of disease. The bacteria that cause disease are always there, but the reason you remain in good health is due to the inactive physiology – take the acidic pH of skin – that blocks a pathogen from infecting your system. This is called a ‘passive immune response’, he says.

 

‘Healthy anger is a boundary defence. It says, this is my space, leave me alone’

 

Now, ready for some deep irony? ‘The moment you become passive in your daily life, or conscious life, the body matches that and the passive immunity reduces,’ he says – before laughing when I ask him to explain the mechanism via which this occurs. ‘Anyone who claims to know the answer to that is delusional – we don’t even understand exactly how aspirin works.’ What matters, he says, is that from the bacteria’s perspective, you’re easier to infect. He offers an example – one he’s seen many times in a therapeutic setting – of someone who, despite red flags and concerned warnings from loved ones, pursues a toxic relationship. ‘Years down the line, they may have an autoimmune disease – the immune cells adjusting their functioning according to what the mind is experiencing and attacking its own cells instead. It’s the body’s way of saying: please stop what you’re doing. I can’t convince you with words; let me convince you with facts,’ Professor D’Acquisto says.

Period18 Apr 2023

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  • TitleDo nice girls die first?
    Degree of recognitionInternational
    Media typeWeb
    Country/TerritoryUnited Kingdom
    Date18/04/23
    DescriptionTo understand the nuts and bolts of this, I put in a call to Fulvio D’Acquisto, professor of immunology at the University of Roehampton, practising psychotherapist, and one of the world’s foremost experts on the interplay between the immune and emotional systems – a field known as affective immunology. ‘Only two tissues can remember: the brain and immune system,’ he shares. ‘The brain measures what you experience consciously, everything else – invisible threats – is monitored by the immune system.’ Being healthy, he explains, isn’t about an absence of disease. The bacteria that cause disease are always there, but the reason you remain in good health is due to the inactive physiology – take the acidic pH of skin – that blocks a pathogen from infecting your system. This is called a ‘passive immune response’, he says.

    ‘Healthy anger is a boundary defence. It says, this is my space, leave me alone’
    Now, ready for some deep irony? ‘The moment you become passive in your daily life, or conscious life, the body matches that and the passive immunity reduces,’ he says – before laughing when I ask him to explain the mechanism via which this occurs. ‘Anyone who claims to know the answer to that is delusional – we don’t even understand exactly how aspirin works.’ What matters, he says, is that from the bacteria’s perspective, you’re easier to infect. He offers an example – one he’s seen many times in a therapeutic setting – of someone who, despite red flags and concerned warnings from loved ones, pursues a toxic relationship. ‘Years down the line, they may have an autoimmune disease – the immune cells adjusting their functioning according to what the mind is experiencing and attacking its own cells instead. It’s the body’s way of saying: please stop what you’re doing. I can’t convince you with words; let me convince you with facts,’ Professor D’Acquisto says.

    URLhttps://gb.readly.com/magazines/womens-health-uk/2023-04-18/643a6a7173f06d0d1b39110d
    PersonsFulvio D'Acquisto
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